So, Charlie and I were quite necessary. I was getting so nervous the closer the event got to us. But, she was so calm. I cut up the chicken and put them on skewers, (note: the morning of the party, Diandra and I went bright and early to where the party was going to be to drop off the supplies. Diandra had been helping there the past two days as well). By the time I got home, it was 10:30 a.m. and I started cutting chicken. By the time I finished putting the chicken on skewers, it was 3:00. I was literally crying. The smell and feel of the chicken got to me. I still had to take a shower and get myself ready. I was to be back at the house where the party was going to be at 4:00. I was late.
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I was impressed to see everything my daughter was doing. She first started with the invitations by scanning little drawings she had designed and then arranged neatly on Microsoft Word, eventually printing them all off herself. She took the symbols that she designed on the invitations and painted them on the bottom of each clear desert plate with the same colors she'd used in writing on the invitation. Diandra also made party favors with these designs on the tags. She painted Chinese lanterns to coordinate with the party colors. She made all of the desserts that her best friend liked (chocolate is her favorite, and rightly so!) The invitation said, "Flip flop on over for an old fashioned all white party," along with the details of the event. Everyone was to wear white and khaki and colorful flip flops. There was crochet and boccie ball games going during the party. Diandra wanted me to take pictures throughout the party so that she could make a CD to give her afterwards.
I really don't feel comfortable at things like this and thought that I could make my exit. I really thought that my job was done and at one point, I went up to her and mentioned that I thought that I was going to go. She looked at me with sheer terror on her face and said, "What?" I knew that she really just needed her mom there with her period! I stayed and just made myself busy washing dishes, putting things away, getting things for people and answering any questions that I could. I was there until the very end. She was so appreciative and I was so happy to be there for her. It was a great party and I was so proud of her.
NOTE: For all of you who RSVP, and then decide NOT to go...please, by the kindness invested in you, CALL and let the party giver know. Poor Diandra was ready for 50 people...only half showed. All the money, time, and effort Diandra had worked so hard on...
Old wheel barrel carrying a load of Vinca flowers.
The table center pieces were varying sized, empty boxes with Gerber Daisey's stuck into each one.
Mark, Darlene's son, who's friend's with Diandra, helped her bring 5 large tables, and 50 chairs to the event. What a blessing he was!
Koi fish in the pond
Graduation/18th Birthday presents
This donkey, Jack, enjoyed the festivities as well. All throughout the party, he was "He Hawing." Diandra said it's normal; everyone else heard him each time he did it and just looked at each other with awe. It was so loud and sounded so deep from within. You don't realize these little country sounds actually occur outside of children's books. He really added something to the party.
The menu consisted of Grilled Chicken on skewers with four different sauces to dip them in, pasta salad, mixed green salad, and fruit salad, all of which were homemade.
Diandra painted the Chinese lanterns to coordinate to match the colors of the party and were placed through out the yard.
Diandra painted the Chinese lanterns to coordinate to match the colors of the party and were placed through out the yard.
Diandra seen the bags at Michael's, and decided that she could do them herself. She took colored bags, stenciled and then cut them out, taped wax paper behind each one.
Graham crackers with chocolate frosting placed in bags were the party favors (a treat passed down from Diandra's Great Great Gram).
Great ideas! I love all the decorations! Everything looked so festive! I am sure everybody went home happy!
ReplyDeleteThis is so GREAT!!!! Diandra did such a WONDERFUL job! The food looked delicious! All the hard work and planning she put into this! I am so proud of her myself! and...you are such a good Mom Angela.....everything looked just perfect! :-)
ReplyDeleteYou are an awesome mom and I just know that Diandra really loved that you stayed there for her.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful party it must have been.
Oh by the way my mom and baby sister share this birthday date as well.
::gentle hugs::
Sheila
oh wow ~ she did a fabulous job :) and you are such a good mama to stay with her throughout :)
ReplyDeletei am so inspired by this beautiful post, the beautiful party details and all the gret love and care!!
Wow...what an awesome job she did! And how sweet of you to stay the entire time :)
ReplyDeletexoxo silvia
Wow! What a creative daughter. She has the party gene, I was talking about. I'm glad to know who got it! She did very well.
ReplyDeleteOnly half showed up! The rat-finks!
Oh Angela: What an awesome party! I think Diandra is just like her mom....creative, productive and reliable!! What and effort....and what a success!!
ReplyDeleteThe pictures are marvelous! I feel like I've been to a party, the chicken was delicious and the lemonade sweet!!
You girls are something else!!
Love and Hugs
Wanda Mom
Wow! Diandra should be an event coordinator. What a selfless thing to do for a friend. You raised a good one there Angela Marie! Way to go, both of you. I guess those that didn't show up will wish that they had.
ReplyDeletewow! Diandra is so talented I can really see what you were describing
ReplyDeletethe other day, hey you never know she may end up being the new Martha !
great job with all that you did to help and love all your photos.
I'm sorry that only half showed up, but WoW, that was their loss.
ReplyDeleteYou have an amazing daughter, and the photos prove what planning and hard work can achieve.
Wonderful photos, and I'll be those that attended will always remember this.
Phew! ALL that Diandra and YOU did made me tired just reading about it!!! I hate that only half showed up but that was their loss for sure!!! Everything looks sooOOOooOO SWEET! I LOVE lemonade and a fruit jar! and all those lanterns and I would have LOVED that donkey Heee-Hawwwwing!! maybe he thought you all were going to play PIN the tail on the DONKEY!!! *wink* LOL
ReplyDeletewhat an abundant show of love from your daughter for her friend. Her love runneth over -- and that's the best kind of love for friends! :) Suz.
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